Migrates the underlying representation of QuicheLinkedHashMap from absl::node_hash_map to absl::flat_hash_map.

Pointer stability is not required in this case, and absl::flat_hash_map generally has better performance characteristics.

All QUICHE tests:
  http://sponge2/2786a308-bae7-4b32-81e4-da322d534f7f

All QUICHE tests with --config=asan:
  http://sponge2/1575e0be-3ae6-4b97-a5ee-932b2581509a

Protected by not practical to flag protect.

PiperOrigin-RevId: 429615873
diff --git a/common/quiche_linked_hash_map.h b/common/quiche_linked_hash_map.h
index 4aa6078..e8aafc4 100644
--- a/common/quiche_linked_hash_map.h
+++ b/common/quiche_linked_hash_map.h
@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@
 #include <type_traits>
 #include <utility>
 
-#include "absl/container/node_hash_map.h"
+#include "absl/container/flat_hash_map.h"
 #include "absl/hash/hash.h"
 #include "common/platform/api/quiche_export.h"
 #include "common/platform/api/quiche_logging.h"
@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@
 class QuicheLinkedHashMap {               // QUICHE_NO_EXPORT
  private:
   typedef std::list<std::pair<Key, Value>> ListType;
-  typedef absl::node_hash_map<Key, typename ListType::iterator, Hash, Eq>
+  typedef absl::flat_hash_map<Key, typename ListType::iterator, Hash, Eq>
       MapType;
 
  public: